On Monday I wrote that today we would look at the most important question Church leaders can ask. The question comes from the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Ephesians. Andy Stanley is the first person I heard ask the question. In fact, he’s written a book about it. The question is based on Ephesians 5:15-16: Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of time, because the days are evil. Do you see the question embedded in the statements? Here it is: What is the wise thing to do?
As leaders we make dozens if not hundreds of decisions every day. The best way to lead and lead with success and significance is to choose the wise thing every time. Can we always know the wise thing to do? Not with 100% assurance, but we can choose wisely far more often than we sometimes do, if we pause to ask ourselves the question before we make a decision. Is this the wise thing to do? The question can be asked in every area of life, and can lead to more effective leadership in each of those areas.
For example, the next time you’re deciding what to have for breakfast, if you ask, “Is it wise for me to eat several donuts and a Pepsi?” If you’re thinking, “That’s crazy! Who would eat several donuts and a Pepsi for breakfast?” I did. When I was in my early twenties and was doing carpentry work six days a week, I often had a regular breakfast of eggs and bacon or cereal and fruit, but later in the morning, I’d have donuts and a Pepsi at the local store. It wasn’t the wisest choice I ever made and I made it multiple times. These days I have green smoothies five mornings a week and eggs, bacon and fruit on the weekends. That’s a much wiser choice over the long haul.
What does that have to do with being an effective leader? Everything. After all, when we eat wisely we feel better, live healthier and potentially longer. In my experience, being healthy, alive and feeling well generally leads to more effective leadership.
Moving to a much more serious side of things, the next time you’re making a decision about whether to implement a change to your worship services, small groups, or pastoral care, instead of asking, “Will this work better?” or “Will this attract more people?” Ask, “Is this the wise thing to do?” Or “Is this wiser than what we’re doing now? Most churches are looking for ways to be more effective these days, or at least we ought to be. After all, what we’re doing is the most important task there is: sharing the Good News of Jesus with those who haven’t received it, and helping those who have to grow into maturity as followers of Jesus. As Church leaders the decision we make have eternal consequences, because as we remind ourselves frequently at New Life: The decisions we make now matter for eternity
We are constantly tweaking our existing ministries and asking ourselves whether they are still advancing our mission, which is to share, grow and live the new life of Jesus Christ with the world–one person at a time. As Andy Stanley and many others have said, “We need to marry our mission and date our methods. It is wise to ask ourselves whether our methods are effective on a regular basis. We make it a practice to evaluate everything we do and to ask ourselves whether there’s a better (read wiser) way to do it. We do a lot of reading, watching and listening, because we know the Bible is our guidebook for life, and many other resources have taken its principles and developed wise ways to apply them for the context of 21st century America.
Many churches either don’t ask or have stopped asking the question, “What is the wise thing to do?” for a lot of reasons. Perhaps the way it’s always been done is so ingrained that to question it is considered sacrilegious. Maybe things are already good enough and if it isn’t broken why should we fix it? Maybe someone has donated a piece of furniture and to stop using it or to use it differently would be considered ungrateful or would cause conflict. Many times doing the wise thing stirs the pot, and results in conflict. The key is to do the wise thing anyway, because over time doing the wise thing more and more brings health and vitality to a local church, and over time healthy things grow.
As you read these posts you may wonder whether my goal is to provide “church growth” pointers. I’m certainly not opposed to that, because I do believe healthy things grow, but my bigger concern is to help church leaders lead effectively, and produce healthy church cultures, because that is the long-term means of glorifying God and advancing His Kingdom. While I invest most of my time thinking about how to do the next wise thing for New Life, my heart is always for Jesus’ Church to be healthy and growing, because I want everyone to know Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord. That job is too big for any person, or any local church. It’s all of our job together.
So, what is the next wise decision for you as a leader of the church where you serve? What is the most important next wise decision? Do you need to get training in an area where you are inexperienced? Do you need to change a system or a program? Take some time right now to consider prayerfully what the three most important areas are where you need to make wise decisions, or even where you need to gather more information so you can choose wisely. Remember, prayer is the starting point, but at some point you’ll need to choose wisely and then do something. That’s what leadership means, actually developing a plan and seeing it be implemented in the life of the church you serve, or in the particular area of the church where you serve.
Here’s to leading better by taking the time to make the next wise choice or choices–today!